03 May, 2006

Clean Feet


I finally caught up with Foot Slave Master (FSM) last night, I'd been dying to see him since I returned from Australia. Foot Slave Master (FSM) is not his real name, but I'm using that alias for a reason.

Recently, this particular friend has accidentally become a Master to a Foot Slave. How did this happen 'accidentally' I hear you ask? Well that's the funny bit. A friend of FSM's has recently gotten in to the foot fetish scene and one night when out drinking with FSM thought it would be a laugh to get one of his 'slaves' to start worshipping FSM's feet. So that's how it begun.

The bit that surprised FSM is that he is quite enjoying the role. When we discussed this last night, I wasn't that surprised - I think it is an issue of power. All of us have secret (or not so secret) yearnings for power of some kind I think. Either to have more or less of it.

I once knew a girl who worked part time on the reception desk of an S&M dungeon in Perth to support herself financially through university. Whilst she was working there she became more and more intrigued by what the 'mistresses' did and decided to give it a try. At first she found it slightly amusing, but after a while, really started to enjoy it. Her 'mistress' persona became more and more significant, until one day, she felt like she was losing a sense of who she really was. The 'acts' she was prepared to do became heavier (in many people's perception, downright nasty). It scared her, so she gave the gig up - even though financially she was earning more than she ever had (and probably will again!)

There is obviously a significant market out there around this sort of behaviour, which begs the question: how many of us want to control or be controlled?

12 comments:

DaBich said...

YIKES! That is scary. I prefer the give and take, share and share alike scene myself. A little role playing once in a while is fine. But I think your friend who quit her job is right. It takes over you!

running42k said...

I recall reading about a study that said that 70% of couples would engage in bondage. Problem is most couples don't. Me and the Mrs do every once in a while to spice things up, on those rare occassions that all the kids are out of the house.

missy said...

I'm up for anything!

Well... depends on my mood... ;-)

angel, jr. said...

Feet can be both scary and sexy at the same time.
Hopefully they are well maintained feet--lotioned and manicured. Also without odor.

Miz BoheMia said...

S&M is not necessarily always hardcore... even something as simple as giving your partner more say in the sex acts because it can turn you on can classify as S&M... about 90 something % of people, whether aware of it or not engage in some form of S&M... there are just varying degrees to it and I think the whole issue of control is central to sex in general... some in general like to give it up and just let go during sex while others need to take the reigns...

I say, BRING ON THE KINK! ;-P

Haily said...

I think that every person has a preference when it comes to control or not. We may not be into the BDSM scene, but we do give or take power in some form. Especially during sex. Who is the one giving of themsleves for the sake of the other? A lot of women will give up sexual control in the bedroom to make their man happy. A lot of men like to sit back and let the girl do what she wants. We may not be tied up, but it's still being submissive or dominant.

Anhoni Patel said...

Dude. *kiss* *kiss* I'm back. What interesting posts to be met with upon my arrival...

A Foot Slave Master. What exactly are the logistics of that?? Hmmm...How *does* one get a gig like that?

This one time I was at a party (bondage a go-go, don't ask) and this mistress had one of her slaves lick and kiss my sneakers. Does this make me a FSM?

You know that most interesting people.

K~ said...

Ziggy Beloved London Style Icon, there's nothing wrong with a little control here and there. After all can't let a perfectly good pair of handcuffs go to waste. LOL'n


Really though I really like the interesting and eclectic group of people you seem to run into :)

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Anonymous said...

i want to be controlled by a girl.... wanna worsip her feet

Anonymous said...

i want to be controlled by a girl.... wanna worsip her feet