12 March, 2006

Dating 101


Um, my Boyfriend at the Gym (BG) asked me out on a real date this morning.

He's been my boyfriend for ages, I keep seeing him and what began as little glances turned in to 'hellos' and then 'how are you?s' etc.

Then today, he waited for the space on the stretching mats next to me to become available and plonked himself next to me.

As you can imagine, I was looking at my very best. Tracksuit pants, sweaty t-shirt, my hair looked like it was about to take off in flight and my face was probably as red as... let's not even go there.

In addition to this, I was short of breath after my workout so when he asked me the standard introductory questions, my answers were given (not by choice) in a short, succinct, breathy stylee. Hopefully he didn't think I was doing it for effect.

If he does end up calling me (yes, I gave him my number), I'm a bit concerned about what happens next. I'm a bit out of dating practice. Oh well, at least it might make for some interesting stories...

41 comments:

Miz BoheMia said...

Oooh! I wouldn't worry! You actually sound like you looked quite gym sexy and gym tough! When's the big date? Just sit back, relax and ENJOY!

Oooh! And fill us in on the *swoony* details!

scribe said...

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Bluez628 said...

He doesn't have square pants does he?

Dan Project 76 said...

May I sugggest you report this event in the style of a 1980's photo love story?

Ah, go on.

Anhoni Patel said...

yeah- this is classic 80s high school date procedure. it sounds hot.

and I agree with miz bo' - you sounded glistening and sexy zigs.

as you are prone to saying: go you!

nortynessa said...

hmmm, i luv spongebob and patrick...

missy said...

Ooooh! Exciting!

angel, jr. said...

Just have fun!!!
And you aren't suppose to look good at the gym.

The Dangerous Man said...

It sounds like one of those moments that you always want to happen but when it actually does you shit yourself over what to say and what might happen.

Fun though.

ziggystardust73 said...

Miz Boho... I intend to enjoy the date - if he ever calls! It's 2 days later and my phone is still being very, very silent....

Scribe ... that could possibly be the most homophobic comment you've ever made ;-)

Bluez... if his pants are square, I don't think I could go there.

Dan - I like the photo journal idea... hhhmmm.

Anhoni - I was so NOT glistening. More like melting. But hey - what's a boy gonna do??

Nortynessa... it's all about Spongebob and Patrick. They're secret lovers.

Missy, not sure how exciting it is just yet as he hasn't called...

Angel - I will enjoy it if it happens!

DM... I've never been chatted up in the gym before, so it was a unique experience!

DaBich said...

Ziggy~You sexy thang you! Has he called??? I want details!!

ziggystardust73 said...

DaBich... he hasn't called.

I need comforting :-(

Miz BoheMia said...

*GASP* MEN!

Malaga is just a hop, skip away so come on over! I have me sexy flamenco dancer friends (male, of course) who would be more than glad to dance your worries away.

Ole!

(Here's one...)

zuzula said...

oooohhhh! that IS exciting. and you obviously looked hot in every sense of the word ;)

any calls/texts (personally i'd expect a text) over the weekend?

ziggystardust73 said...

Miz Bohemia... I'm checking flights now :-)

Zuzula... he hasn't called OR text. Men, huh??!

Twinkle Monkey said...

Ziggy...

Get you cruising in the gym! (And you say your not a proper gay!)

I take it that you were re-aligning Karma by pulling out of our 'pseudo' date on Sunday hmmm....

TM giggles with an evil glint in his eye...


TM

Twinkle Monkey said...

PS Loving the Spongebob...

ziggystardust73 said...

ah TM... you know I pulled out of our pseudo-date for a good reason!

anyway... lover man from the gym hasn't called. And rememer, I don't go out (like, ever) so if I guess the gym is really the only place I can meet 'em!

ps. Spongebob rocks.

pps. Stop giggling.

zuzula said...

ah - forget him. Aren't you off to the southern sphere soon? You'll soon find some gorgeous, tanned surfing dude to take your mind off Gym Bunny :)

constant rain said...

Ziggy said "...he hasn't called OR text. Men, huh??!" -- Well that's what I was thinking! Ah. Don't worry.

DaBich said...

Hmmm....conforting...((((((((Ziggy))))))) big hugs for ya, :)

ziggystardust73 said...

oops. Quick update. I spoke too soon - he called me yesterday....

DaBich said...

Woo-hoo!! :;dewin a happy dance for ya::
Tell us more!!!

Twinkle Monkey said...

So come on MR... We need the juicy gossip...I am a nosy bitch...Come on.. Come on..

TM
(smiling like a bitch...)

Anhoni Patel said...

yes...and? and? what did he say??

Bluez628 said...

What did he say!!

ziggystardust73 said...

well... he invited me out and I said no, cos I was too busy before I leave for Australia....

yep, ziggy is being a pussy.

Dan Project 76 said...

Meow.

Pusssssssssyyyyy!

:-)

Dan Project 76 said...

Meow.

Pusssssssssyyyyy!

:-)

Sar said...

Ziggy! Such drama - I love it! Of course he called. There sex appeal in a sweaty man fresh from the gym. Too bad it didn't happen though. Maybe next time?

And consolation *hugs* are quickly replaced with I'm sorry I haven't made the rounds in awhile still love me? *hugs* :)

DaBich said...

C'mon...so what plans were made for when you come home from Aussie land??? SPill it!

Twinkle Monkey said...

WHAT? Ziggs Man... You going to see him after you get back?

Come on now...

TM

minister scribe said...

Minister Scribe is very jealous of how many comments you got on this blog entry!!! Fortunately, jealousy and spite are seen as virtues in mine religion!!! :)

Anhoni Patel said...

Ziggy!!!

Stop being a prat! You know you totally have time. Are you leaving for Oz this weekend? Go out with him on Friday for coffee or tea.

constant rain said...

Yeah! What Anhoni said!

Miz BoheMia said...

*GASP* You said no? Well, I guess he doesn't have much pull or else you would not be able to resist althoug I think it worth a coffee or a drink!

Venga Ziggy! You know you want to!

Bluez628 said...

Ziggy I never pegged you for a chicken shit.

Bluez628 said...

erm *as*

you know what I mean

ziggystardust73 said...

oooohhhh but I haven't really told you the entire story... see my next post people.

Sar - of course I still love you, who couldn't love you with those SHOES?!?!

Minister Scribe... perhaps you should consider the Church of Ziggy's popularity when considering your own faith?

Bluez - damn woman, you been eating magic muffins again?!!

DaBich said...

Awww chit, I got overlooked, am I in The Church of Ziggy's bad graces???

ziggystardust73 said...

oops! sorry Dabich - and NEVER. You are way too cool to be placed in the bad graces box.

I'll let you know what happens with Gym Bunny on my return...

ps. thanks for the hugs